I Love Mother Jewelry

I really love mother jewelry or mommy jewelry or family jewelry or whatever it is that you happen to call it. I get so hooked looking at all of the different styles and jewelers are getting really creative now with them, because, a lot of women don’t like the typical ‘mommy jewelry’. They want a memento of their kids, etc, but without looking like they are wearing ‘mommy jewelry’. They would like their jewelry to be more sophisticated than that. While I don’t mind, and even like mommy jewelry, the great thing that’s come out of this demand for sophistication is lots of creativity! And that is one thing that I absolutely love when it comes to jewelry – artistic expression! I don’t always want to wear ‘the thing that everyone’s wearing’, I’d like to wear something unique. So I, therefore, am actually a customer for both styles – the more unique and the typical mommy jewelry! Flexible like that, I am. ;)

The two pieces that I have are fairly typical ‘mother jewelry’, but, I love them both. The first one I have is a necklace that my brother and his wife bought me when my youngest was only about a month old. And we all knew that I was done having children – not that more couldn’t have been added, were that not the case, but, anyway… Right, so I had my two boys and my girl. They are September, September, and November. So that’s two blues and an orange. (Not so good with birthstones, can you tell?)

Anyway, it’s a necklace with three cute little children on it and they each have their birthstones on their clothes. They are so adorable. One of them, I think the little girl, is missing a stone. They each have three stones, I believe. (I actually still have it put up from when I went out of town. Do you put your jewelry up when you go out of town? But I digress…) I really want to get that stone replaced, because, it’s one of my favorite necklaces!

Now, I said that my jewelry is ‘fairly’ typical, because my second piece seems to be part of the new wave of mother jewelry that came about not too long ago. It’s a mother’s ring. There are pieces that are far more sophisticated, but, this ring seems to me to be the first wave of people and jewelers getting a little bit ‘away from’ the “mommy jewelry” craze. But like I said, I like them all, so it’s all good. This ring is very pretty and I was very surprised when it was given to me. My parents, my brothers and their wives chipped in together and bought it for me, maybe about six years ago. It’s really pretty and it even has me on it, too. I thought that was a sweet touch.

I will try to get some pictures of my necklace and my ring so that I can show them to you here. I know they will be hard to photograph, but, I learned a neat photography trick that I will try and it will be a fun experiment!

It’s interesting to hear the variation of opinions on mother jewelry from moms and I found a good sampling of ideas here on this MomsLikeMe.com Beauty and Fashion message board thread. I even learned that some moms get what they call a ‘pushing prize’ or a ‘push prize’ – for working so hard to get that baby born! I’ve seen this referenced a few times now. Interesting.

Also interesting, is that it seems the mother’s jewelry tradition began with Helzberg’s Jewelers. If you look up Mother’s ring on Wikipedia, it links to a book by one of the Helzberg’s and he talks about when the tradition for mother jewelry got started – by their company. I wonder if there was anything at all like it prior to that.

Well, whoever started it, I’m so glad they did, because, it’s some of my very favorite jewelry!

Migrainey Ramblings And The Badasses, Too – Who Knew?

I really wanted to blog today – as well as do some VA work that is waiting for me – but, my migraine has other ideas. Mostly, I was in pretty bad pain all day. The kind where it’s like a pressure cooker and at any moment it could blow. In fact, it did kind of blow twice. Once, this morning before I even got out of bed. I had to ‘veg my way out of it’. That’s pretty much basically a meditation/relaxation thing I have to do when it gets really bad. Then the next time was later when I was at my computer, trying to work. I know I got up and walked away from the computer, but, I can’t remember what I really did to get out of it. I think that ‘blow up’ wasn’t as severe, because, I think just walking around kind of calmed it down.

The monster hold the thing had on me finally released – like a balloon letting out air really slowly – late this afternoon. I just looked up and realized that ‘Hey! I’m free! The pressure cooker is gone!’ Now I’ve just got a regular old, pretty bad, migraine. So I made some dinner – a breaded chicken patty sandwich (so not good for me or my weight loss focus…) and took my nighttime medicine. Now I’m monstrously sleepy and fairly loopy and really don’t think any work is going to get done. I did get the dishes that needed to be handwashed done. So that’s good – and an accomplishment.

As far as work, though – I just don’t think that’s gonna happen. I’m just too sleepy/loopy. Crap on a stick. I’ll just have to rock ‘n roll and kick ass ‘n take names tomorrow. And maybe on the weekend to help make up for days lost this week. Yesterday I had to take my daughter to the orthodontist, 30 miles away, and then go to her tennis matches.

I worked hard to not get whiney, fussy, and mondo depressed this time, though. And that’s really cool. I’m so totally happy about that. So many times being sick, especially these BLASTED migraines can really get to me. Not today, though. I sure wasn’t skipping through any tulips, but, I absolutely didn’t let myself go to ‘the hopeless zone’. Do you know what I mean?

I was strong against the BLAH’s most of the day, but, when they started wearing in on me in the afternoon, I just happened to receive an email from Johnny B. Truant about a new BADASS. The BadAsses are the coolest fuckin’ kids in town. I love, love, love this whole project and I’m so uberliciously happy that Johnny has taken it on. I don’t think I can even properly explain it, so I’m just gonna let you go check it out. Well, maybe I could on a not-so-loopy-still-in-pain kinda day, but, yeah….

Anyway, you really should just go see for yourself. And if you’re put off by the swearalicious name of it, just put that aside and go see. You’ll love it. I promise:

The Badass Project

So anyway, they keep my shit in line. Yes, I have a ton of migraines. Yes, they get in the way of my life and are a big pain in the ass and it’s hard to get enough/the right meds for them and I miss my kids’ activities all the time. Blah blah blah…. But!! These guys have it way worse and have CONQUERED! And I do mean CONQUERED!! They’ve gone far beyond what many, many able-bodied people do. And they just freaking rock on through the hard times and the obstacles in their way. Wow. Just wow.

Makes me feel like ‘The Little Engine That Could’.

I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.

And I keep on going. And I keep on going. No matter what.

Wow – I had no idea this post was gonna be about The BadAsses. I just wanted to freaking post. I wanted to blog. I used to just open the damn editor (whatever you call this ‘you type right here’ box) and write. And I wanted to do that.

“But I don’t have the pictures. But I don’t have the links. But I am not sure about the heading and subheading. What about the keywords? On and on and on…”

Aw hell! Just open it up and write – it’s your blog! Ok, I’m gonna – so I did. And so the BadAsses have saved me for a second time today. First they helped me push through Mr. Monster Migraine. And now they’ve charged me up and I’m gonna go get at least an hour of work in. ROCK ON!!

Thank you, Bad Asses! I love you, I love you, I love you!!

Lisa Marie Mary

P.S. And you know what’s really funny? I can’t even watch any of the videos today! Duh! I’ve got a migraine! Hahaha!

P.P.S. Ok, I may be the only one that thinks that’s so funny, but, I still think it’s funny!

Join Us On Facebook!

Facebook is so much fun! Everyone – and I do mean everyone …all the way up to my 80-something year old great aunt – is on Facebook! And that is a gigantic part of what makes it so cool. It is an opportunity – and an avenue – to reconnect with people from all of the different walks of your life! So come on over and join us!

Lisa Marie Mary

Soul-Flower Karma Krewe

Hippie Clothes Karma Krewe

I’m so excited, ya’ll! I am now officially part of the Soul-Flower Karma Krewe! Peggy just introduced me on their blog today and I’d love for you to go read it here:

Meet Lisa, Karma Krewe member & self-proclaimed Wannabe-Hippie!

Soul-Flower is a wonderful, heart-filled company that provides awesome, groovy products and is doing their best to do right by the world! Definitely my kind of company! You will be hearing more about my involvement with the Karma Krewe throughout the year!

Lisa Marie Mary

5 Super Cute Things I Did Not Buy From Soul-Flower

Soul-Flower.comI am such a major dweeb. I expect that you know this if you’ve read any of my uber redonkulous posts here. I definitely have a redonkulous way about me. And this time is no different. See, my mother bought me a gift certificate for one of my very favorite online stores, Soul-Flower. And if you’ve read my goofy carrying-on over here, you know how much I love that place and their awesome hippie clothes and bohemian clothes!

The really funny, super dweeby part about it is that I got the gift certificate for Christmas – and it actually arrived before Christmas! When it came, it was in a big manila envelope and I thought for some reason that Soul-Flower had decided to put their catalogs in envelopes….so I opened it. Oops – there was the GC with the catalog. LOL! I totally could have cheated and bought stuff with it before I was even supposed to have opened it! And here it is, March – and I’m just now getting around to it! Geez! Well, I did order some things in the end of February. So we’ll give me a little bit of credit. Not much, though.



Tapestry BackpackI have SO. MUCH. TROUBLE. shopping there. I know, crazy, right? It is totally one of my fave online stores! LOL Well, I just like SO MUCH of their stuff that I have a hard time deciding what exactly to order! So I thought I’d show you a few cute things that I didn’t buy this time.

This is the tapestry patchwork backpack I’ve been oohing and aahing over for a very long time! And holy macaroni! I just peaked at the site and it says there is only one left! Wow! I suppose I’d better make my decision quickly on that one, wouldn’t you say? Ack!

Mini Patchwork BackpackUPDATE:Okay, they’ve sold all of those backpacks, but, there is a new one up that I’d like to show you. It’s very much like that one, but, it is smaller. It’s called the Remember When…. Mini Backpack and it’s just adorable. So it’s basically a backpack purse. Really cute. And it actually looks sturdier to me, with the corduroy trim holding it all together. I love it!

Tie Dye Hoody DressThis tie dye hoody dress is fairly new and I absolutely love it! I really would not want to wear it until I lost more weight, though. I’m in the process again and have lost 10 pounds so far. Yea! I love the embroidered trim and flaired sleeves on this dress and the casualness to it, even though it’s a really pretty dress. I think I might take a gamble on it and just see if they still have it when I’ve lost all my weight. Who knows? They might have something I like uber tons better by then!

Spiral Wood Earrings
spiral-wood-earrings-on-girl Okay, these spiral wood earrings are so. darn. cool.! I just absolutely love them! It’s a cute and funny trick that looks like you really have the piece of wood spiraling through your ear lobe! So interesting and cute! I have trouble wearing earrings, though, so I didn’t grab these for myself.

Fairytale TopI really love this fairy tale top – it’s so dainty and sweet, but, not so much so that I would feel uncomfortable and too girly. I’m really not very girly or foo-foo, you know? The problem is, though, that I think tops with this style of cut looks that great on plus sized ladies, because, I think it looks like a maternity blouse when you’re fat. And that’s just not cool. My youngest is 14 years old. I’m so not pregnant and I sure don’t want to look it. Maybe one day when I’m thinner, we’ll see. For now – I’ll just enjoy it on others. Like on Peggy, the sweet and super cool co-owner of Soul-Flower!

Beautiful Path NecklaceThis is the beautiful path necklace and I absolutely, completely love it! It reminds me of working to stay peaceful throughout my day and keeping calm through all the chaos of life. And it’s only $12! How amazing is that? This cool little guy is definitely staying in my Soul-Flower wish list!

I’m telling you – shopping at Soul-Flower is hard work! Whodathunkit, huh? They just have so many neat and wonderful and cute and pretty things! And they really are a cool company – you can read all about them here: About Soul-Flower. They are very interested in making the world a better place and they are very conscious of the vendors from whom they get their clothes and everything they sell. They only want to buy from vendors that are environmentally and socially conscious. I just love that about them.

Groovy shopping,
Lisa Marie Mary

Macy’s Has Coupons AND Proper Models!

Macy’s was the one department store in Dallas that I actually liked. I mean, of the fancy ones, that is. I always felt like a fish out of water in fancy department stores, but, Macy’s had a ‘fun’ edge to it, for some reason. I really have no idea why or what in particular about it made me feel a little comfortable, a little bit welcome, there. And of course, it was always fun to go to the Galleria Mall, though there were not a lot of stores in there that I liked, either. Almost all of the small stores felt like mini fancy department stores. Or boutiques, if you will. Now I like boutiques that have some flair, some personality, maybe even some eccentricity to them. But fancy-foo-foo just isn’t my cup of tea. The structure, the design, of the mall was cool, though. And it was fun driving up in the parking garage in circle after circle after circle…

Yes, I’m a dork.

The trippy part is that now there are Macy’s Coupons! So strange to think about using a coupon at a nice department store. When I was growing up, I don’t think anybody would have walked into a store like that with a coupon. Today, though, saving – and frugality – are cool. It’s about time! Duh! Do you know that growing up, we never even went to the big discount stores. I mean – never. Not at all. I was married and out of the house before I went to one. I’ve always been a cheapskate, pretty much, but, grew up in an era of snobbery and people just didn’t do that. And to think all the wonderful thrift store shopping we missed out on! Thrift stores are amazing!

Getting back to Macy’s, you can now shop online from their store. That’s really cool. I guess I just don’t think of stores like that having online ordering available. But they do and not only that, there are Macy’s Coupon Codes and Macy’s Promo Codes that you can use, too!

When I discovered that, I figured it would be kind of like some of the grocery coupons. You know how it’s often cheaper to get the generic cereal than the name brand cereal using the coupon? That drives me crazy! So I was thinking Macy’s stuff would still be outrageous, price-wise. We’re a cash-strapped family with three teenagers, worried about getting them through college, we’re not going to be buying super mondo expensive stuff, you know?

I went and looked through the plus-size section since I’m a plus-size (now…) and they really had some decent prices in there and some cute things. So many plus-size sections have ‘grandma clothes’. It’s like, “Um – hello? I’m fat, not geriatric!!” And truth be told, they did have a few pieces that screamed ‘grandma’, but, they also had a ton of really nice-looking stuff.

And GUESS WHAT!!!

Their plus-sized clothes were modeled by plus-size models!!!! Now that right there is downright amazing! Way to go, Macy’s! One more reason for me to like you!

Happy, groovy fat chick signing out,
Lisa Marie Mary